judgement
I'm so sick of people judging me, I know people have nothing better to do but compare themselves to eachother, or make themselves feel superior to others by only believing their way is the "right" way or the smart way or the only way
who are you to judge me? how does it effect you if I choose to deliver a baby without an epidural, or have a water birth, or have a home birth, why does it make you SO upset??
why do you judge me if I use cloth diapers, because you would never do it because you cant handle it?? why is it you have to talk about it and judge me?? Why if I decide to be the one raising my kids instead of a daycare do you question why dont I work full time
why is homeschooling crazy? Are public schools so wonderful? read a newspaper and tell me how wonderful the education is at public school, you cant!!
Must we all be cookie cutter people who all believe the same thing and dress the same way? Arent the differences we have what makes us interesting?
Shed your skins and let the real you come through and stop judgeing others that are living their lives openly and honestly
2 children is perfect and anything over that is crazy? who says??
I'm so sick of all you judgemental, backstabbing, gossip starting, rumor inducing people who cant look inside themselves and become happy with themselves so you have to create drama to entertain yourselves, rent a fucking movie!
who are you to judge me? how does it effect you if I choose to deliver a baby without an epidural, or have a water birth, or have a home birth, why does it make you SO upset??
why do you judge me if I use cloth diapers, because you would never do it because you cant handle it?? why is it you have to talk about it and judge me?? Why if I decide to be the one raising my kids instead of a daycare do you question why dont I work full time
why is homeschooling crazy? Are public schools so wonderful? read a newspaper and tell me how wonderful the education is at public school, you cant!!
Must we all be cookie cutter people who all believe the same thing and dress the same way? Arent the differences we have what makes us interesting?
Shed your skins and let the real you come through and stop judgeing others that are living their lives openly and honestly
2 children is perfect and anything over that is crazy? who says??
I'm so sick of all you judgemental, backstabbing, gossip starting, rumor inducing people who cant look inside themselves and become happy with themselves so you have to create drama to entertain yourselves, rent a fucking movie!
posted by Susan | 6:27 PM
3 Comments:
I'm having a third baby also and it seems like 3 or more is actually becoming the norm. I don't have any problems with homeschooling, cloth diapers or taking care of my own kids vs. daycare. Who are these people judging you? I am not saying I would do cloth diapers or homeschool per se myself but I don't think it's off the wall or anything. I think you should do what works for you and your family, period!
I feel bad for you. My family-in-law is the same way with me. Whatever I do, I do it wrong and it hurts my feelings so much. I never tell them that what they are doing is wrong so why do they have to open their big mouths on me.
I think it's wonderful that you are having a third baby. I have two and my husband and I can't wait to have a third one. I know it's hard, but try to think of yourself and your husband and children and try to forget about these judgemental people. They aren't worth you getting upset over!
I homeschool too. I am considering a third child - which is what brought me to your blog. Don't worry about what other people say. I've found that more often than not people assume you doing something differently threatens the choices they make or have made. For example, when we told my MIL that we were going to homeschool she got all kinds of pissy. Her thoughts "Public school was good enough for MY kids, so it's good enough for your kids too." There are several good ways to parent or educate - there are no "best" ways, you choose what works for you and yours. :)
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